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I Hate Getting My Pictures Taken

I Hate Getting My Picture Taken

You’re not into getting your picture taken? I know that feeling, there’s a reason why I’m on the other side of the camera now. I know there’s times that you may not be feeling well, you may be going through some stressful times, you may have a headache (yeah, I get those too), you might have signs of acne (yeah, I went through that too), I can absolutely help get you through your photo session in the best way possible. I’m here to make sure you have a good time and come out with what you wanted.

Professional photography can capture a person’s emotions and feelings. I can trigger specific moods to evoke emotions such as happiness, sadness or loneliness. On the other hand, I can also hide certain emotions through photographic techniques.

1. No one will know that you had a headache by looking at the photo.

First of all, professional family photography is about creating memories. I capture your magical moments so that you can have them forever. As time passes, no one will recall how you felt on the day of the photo session, and I will try not to capture that “bad mood” in our photography session. Rather, I will try and “hide” it.

Our goal is to make you feel comfortable and at ease during the photo session so that your photos can look fabulous.

2. Feel Good about yourself and be positive.

This is a simple life philosophy that doesn’t only apply to your photo session, but to life in general.

Yes, I know that sometimes it’s not easy to keep up and be positive, but that is life. What do I do on my blue days? I try to expose myself to all the things that make me happy. There are small, inexpensive things that bring joy to our life. Let’s start with music—Why don’t you play the music that you love the most?

Keep your mind occupied with good memories and try to stay relaxed.

3. Focus on your Family members or your career goals

If you booked a family photo session, it helps people to relax when they are focused on their partner, kids, pet or other subjects in the photos.

Often, we ask couples to look into each other’s eyes, to hug or cuddle and feel the gentle touch of their partner. These techniques help individuals to relax, which leads to an improvement in their comfort level during the photo session.

Focusing on people you love will make you feel good, happy and loved. It will boost your energy and help you to present yourself in the best way. Of course, we will also be very focused to enable you to showcase the best version of yourself.

If you are getting a corporate headshot and you are the only subject in the photo, then consider this: In any business, there are specific milestones that we define such as closing a deal, selling, finishing a project in a specified time frame, or a presentation. It’s essential to carefully consider these defining points in our career.

So, try to gather your focus and give your best. Remember, having a good photo could lead to more projects or job opportunities along the way.

Give your best during this one or two-hour session, so that you can achieve your business goals and reap the benefits of this deal for a long time.

4. How to forget that your photographer is on the set with you

We believe that spontaneous photographs are generally the best. Often, people look amazingly relaxed is when they don’t look at the photographer or lenses.

For our photo sessions, I work hand in hand with the clients and provide them with guidelines such as to how to position themselves, where to look, how to breathe, how fast to walk and even when to bend your knees. I employ techniques similar to those that professional models use at their photo sessions or on the catwalk.

Also, I use modern, high-tech (very expensive) equipment with powerful lenses that enable us to capture perfect photos even if I’m 20 yards away. In this case, you will not even notice our presence, yet end up with perfect photos.

5. Proper/ Right Food and Diet Can Help

Whenever I know that I have an important upcoming meeting, I am careful with the food that I consume.

When I worked as a model in the advertising industry (I made several TVC for Banks, Fashion industry, etc.), I didn’t experiment with food on those days right before or during the photo sessions. Although I am open to trying new foods, I wouldn’t dare experiment with food until the session was completed.

I eat what I am accustomed to because I don’t want to get surprised by the heavy feeling in my belly caused by a new food. You don’t want that either. That would distract you from feeling comfortable in front of the camera. There will be plenty of time to try new things, have dinner in new restaurants, etc. On the day of the photo session, eat your regular fare.

6. Post-production.

The most beautiful photographic effects are those that you don’t notice. I am referring to professional retouches that look natural and not fake.

Hair should stay and look like hair, but with a subtle glossy effect; eyes should have a sexy glow, but not as a terminator. Human skin is a delicate substance, therefore I’m trying to maintain its texture and not to transform it into rubber or some artificial texture. Although I’ve been mastering the art of post-production, I still value the natural look.

7. Dress so you won’t think about it

You often read advice, “dress comfortably”, but that’s too vague. If you’re usually uncomfortable in front of a camera, it’s only going to get more uncomfortable if you’re not completely confident in what you’re wearing. You might have that feeling like you should wear all of your best stuff. But, wearing all of your best stuff might come with its own kind of discomforts, and self-conscious thoughts, because you don’t wear that stuff all the time.

It’s often best to wear something tried and true. Basically, something you know looks pretty good, but more importantly, something that you won’t think much about once you’re wearing it. Of course, you don’t want to disregard this altogether—like, no gym shorts—you just don’t want to get all up in your head about it. So, if you’re nervous, dress for a family reunion, not a wedding.

8. Pick a photographer who’s not judging you

Ultimately, for a photographer to deliberately capture your best side, they have to identify the other side too. So, photographers have to be ‘judgemental’ to some extent. But, some photographers are judging, as in, holding value based opinions about what you look like in their photographs, or how you need to be photographed, or what it’s like to direct you during a shoot. You can hear the exacerbation in their voice. You know you’re annoying them. Well, that’s toxic and it makes for a terrible portrait session experience, especially if you’re already not so comfortable with the whole thing.

Stay away from these photographers. It’s a good idea to look over their social media accounts and see what kinds of things they say to each other and to clients. See if you can find some behind the scenes videos. Pay attention to their tone of voice as they answer your questions about the shoot. The lions share of what photographers do with their subjects is relational, so that’s what you want to try and gauge.

If you can stomach it, I’d suggest clearly telling them what makes you nervous about being in front of the camera, and see what they have to say. Their response probably ought to be reassuring, both personally and practically.

9. Shoot someplace where you feel “at home”

This is a little like the clothing suggestion. It’s mostly just about making sure you’re not preoccupied with your physical surroundings, or thinking too much about the gaze of strangers. You don’t want to be trying to get into a session with your photographer in a place that’s making you nervous, uncomfortable or self-conscious. It might be hard to guess what those places are, but think of it this way: You probably feel quite comfortable in a grocery store, but you’d probably suddenly feel quite uncomfortable if you were trying to pose for pictures there.

So, you want to shoot some place where you don’t feel like you’re everyone’s center of attention, or like you don’t belong there. Someplace that evokes a similar level of comfort as your front yard. You could paint a picture there, or pop a chair and talk with friends, all without feeling out of place. Parks you go to regularly are a good choice, and your front yard is always an option.

10. Ask to just hang out for a little while before you start shooting

It’s definitely easier to be photographed by someone you have a connection with, than a total stranger. That’s, in part, because you know the person you have a connection with is looking out for your interests. In this case, a photographer you have a connection with is looking out for how you’re being portrayed in the images, and not just their artistic vision.

Spending a few minutes before you start shooting just hanging around and chatting can make a big difference. It can also make the experience feel less rushed and less impersonal.

11. Keep something in your hands

A lot of people feel uncomfortable in front of the camera because they don’t know what to do with their hands. The thing is, when you become overly aware of what you’re doing with your hands (such as when a photographer tells you where to put them, or how to hold them), it’s starts to feel unnatural. I’ve often asked subjects to tell me whether what I’ve told them to do with their hands feels natural—they almost never know. Because in real life, people aren’t thinking much about their hands. It’s automatic. So when a photographer says, “put your hands here” or “hold your hands like this…”, you’re suddenly thinking more about your hands than you ever normally would.

You can short-circuit the whole thing by keeping something in your hands. Maybe a cup of coffee, a hat, a pair of sunglasses, smartphone, an electronic cigarette. It almost doesn’t matter what it is, as long as it’s something that humans might carry around normally.

12. Plan for a longer, meandering shoot

A bit like taking some time before the shoot to just hang out, you can extend that idea and do an entirely different kind of shoot. It’s one thing to be uncomfortable in front of the camera, it’s another to be uncomfortable and also on a picture taking marathon where you go from one picture to the next in rapid succession. Instead, you could meander and shoot casually as you go.

If you could do some photos, then just explore and have fun for 10 minutes, and then do a few more photos, and walk around some more…. so on and so on… you’d probably feel a lot more comfortable. Most photographers are open to shooting this way, so just ask.

13. Be honest with yourself (and your photographer)

The most important thing you can do to feel more comfortable is be honest with yourself about how you feel. You should not pretend to be super confident and comfortable if you’re not. A photographer is almost definitely going to pick up on that, will likely misinterpret the behavior, and potentially portray you in a inauthentic or even unflattering way. Pushing down feelings of discomfort, rather than noticing them, accepting them, and letting them pass as you have a new and positive experience, is going to maximize discomfort.

What’s more, if your photographer doesn’t know how you feel, they can’t help you feel better in their choice of locations, interactive style, and creative ideas. So, be honest with yourself and with them.

14. Want to get over your discomfort in front of the camera?

We can help. We love helping people have positive experiences in front of the camera and even working with them to get over their discomfort. If you’d like more details about what we do for our clients and how we make them feel, check out our portrait sessions, weddings, and headshot services.